Pillars of Strength has a number of programmes to help dads. We are bringing bereaved dads together in situations where they can experience some sense of normality - hanging out with their mates and doing things that men do. In doing so, we are building communities where men help men.
Our programmes currently include:
We are building new programmes:
In November, Jarrod Maher and Ben Howard hosted the annual golf day in remembrance of their sons George and Hamish. As usual it was attended by a mix of bereaved dads, their mates and families and many other members of the Wagga Community. A fabulous time was had by all!
The Time Out programme is exactly what it sounds like - it gives dads their own time to reconnect with their network of mates without actually having to ask for help - instead as an example, they just ask if they want to go to the footy, or come and play in a golf day...
It can also allow dads to meet a peer support network of dads and their mates who have been through a similar situation. This shows him is a very real way that he is not alone.
A dad who has this time out can reflect, reenergise and refocus - he can get back to being the Pillar of Strength his family needs him to be.
He is also reconnected with his support network – the people around him who have always been there but may not have been able to engage him.
Our current focus is centred on the neonatal and newborn spectrum of fatherhood…
There are currently no services exclusively available for fathers to support them during this difficult period. The loss may have happened recently or years ago. All dads who have suffered these losses are eligible to join our community.
It's free to join the Pillars of Strength community - we just need a few details from you.
When you join up you will receive an email with your login details. This will give you exclusive access to the members area, which includes the event calendar and information about how to access communities of dads across Australia as we build Pillars of Strength nationally.
We are very careful to protect your privacy - if you do not wish to share your details with the rest of the dads, just tell us when you sign up - you can change this at any time in the membership management page.
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Many of our donors and sponsors understand there is a woeful lack of support for grieving fathers. You can help by making a donation.
All donations over $2 are tax-deductible